Dante was a eighteen year old high school senior who was displaying quite a few alcohol-related difficulties at school. For that reason, the principal explained to him that he had to see Miss Johnson, the school psychologist, before he would be allowed to return to school.
Later that day when Dante went home after school, he had to explain his school situation to his parents. His Mom and Dad were “relatively conventional” and informed Dante that getting kicked out of school was not a practical educational plan of action. They explained to Dante that failing to graduate from high school would likely be like a lead weight around his ankles that could probably hinder his educational attainment for the rest of his life. Not only this, but Dante’s Mother and Father were quite unhappy that he was drinking in the first place and drinking with his pals in the second.
His parents told Dante that even though he may be young, he needs to realize fairly promptly that drinking is the pathway to failure, financial problems, ill health, and pain.
It was plain to see that his Mom and Dad were absolutely in accord with Dante’s principal and told Dante that he had better make up his mind to see Miss Johnson, the school counselor. After his chat with his parents, Dante at last agreed to see Miss Johnson the next day. So Dante phoned the school and scheduled an appointment to see Miss Johnson the next afternoon after school.
The Psychologist Asks Dante if He Understands Why His Recent Alcohol-Related Activities Made the School Administrators Uneasy
When Dante went to see Miss Johnson, she immediately analyzed all of the alcohol-related issues Dante had gotten into and asked him if he comprehended why his recent alcohol-related behavior made the school administrators uneasy.
Quite honestly, Dante was unsure why the principal suggested that he see a school counselor. As he stated to Miss Johnson, why should he see a professional psychologist about his drinking situation? In view of the fact that just about all of his buddies drink about as much as he does, essentially, drinking shouldn’t be such a big deal. Stated more directly, if nearly everyone is drinking, why is this such a major concern?
Miss Johnson asked Dante when he started to drink. He said that some of his older pals introduced him to drinking wine coolers when he was twelve or thirteen years old and getting ready to enter the seventh grade.
Miss Johnson explained to Dante that while his pals may indeed drink as much as he does and that they may be an unhealthy influence on him, the facts are that he is the one who is getting expelled from school due to alcohol-related fighting, delinquency, and absenteeism, not his buddies. Not only this but Miss Johnson also highlighted the fact that Dante, and not his peers, is the one who is failing and who is missing at least two days of class every week because of his alcohol related issues. Lastly, Miss Johnson emphasized the fact that because of his drinking circumstances, Dante is getting into a negative cycle of abusive drinking that can finally wreck his dreams, hopes, and aspirations.
In a word, Dante’s involvement with teenage alcohol abuse was beginning to impede his ability to behave like an accountable young man. As conveyed by Miss Johnson, “Just because most of your peers drink hard liquor, wine, wine coolers, or beer does not mean that it is the correct behavior for you.”
Dante Learns That At the End of the Day He Must Claim Responsibility For Himself In Order to Avoid Destructive, Damaging, Dangerous, and Unhealthy Situations In the Future
Miss Johnson informed Dante that other individuals can definitely influence a person in an unhealthy way, but that the person herself or himself has to finally take responsibility for himself or herself in order to avert damaging, destructive, unhealthy, and dangerous effects in the foreseeable future.
Luckily, Miss Johnson was very well prepared for her appointment with Dante. She showed him reports and research studies she had underlined that outlined diverse drinking statistics and facts that targeted most people in general. Then she showed Dante quite a bit of figures and reports that applied chiefly to underage drinkers.
For instance, Miss Johnson stressed the difference between alcohol abuse and alcohol addiction and told Dante that people who continue to drink abusively commonly become alcoholic.
Miss Johnson also went over the concept of binge drinking which she defined as follows: consuming five or more drinks in one sitting for males and drinking four or more drinks in one sitting for females.
The Counselor Articulates Several Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism Statistics and Facts
Then Miss Johnson verbalized various alcohol facts and the following eight alcohol abuse statistics:
1. As revealed by the Center for Disease Control in Atlanta, there are 105,000 yearly alcohol-related deaths in the U.S. because of inebriated drivers and related medical conditions, injuries, or diseases.
2. Approximately one-fourth of all U.S. people who are admitted to general hospitals have drinking problems or are undiagnosed people who are alcohol dependent who are being treated for the consequences of their irresponsible drinking.
3. Alcohol dependency and alcohol abuse are the third leading cause of preventable deaths in the United States.
4. More than 7% of the population that is 18 years old and older — around 13.8 million Americans — has drinking problems, including 8.1 million drinkers who suffer from alcohol dependency.
5. 500,000 Americans who are alcoholics are between the ages of 9 and 12.
6. As revealed by one U.S. survey of 18 to 24 year-old current drinkers who did not complete high school, around sixty percent started to drink before they were 16 years old.
7. Currently, about 14 million Americans, 1 in every 13 adults, are alcoholic or abuse alcohol.
8. According to the research literature, non-alcoholic members of alcoholic’s families use 10 times as much sick leave as families who do not display alcohol abuse or alcohol addiction.
Dante Gets A Relevant Jolt of Reality About the Long Term and the Short Term Results of Teen Alcohol Dependency and Alcohol Abuse
After Miss Johnson presented the aforementioned alcoholism and alcohol abuse facts and statistics, it was plain to see that what Miss Johnson disclosed to Dante was a real bombshell to him. Why? Because for the first time in his young life, someone not only took the time to give an explanation of the short term and the long term outcomes of alcohol abuse and alcoholism, but she also took the time to support what she was saying with alcohol abuse and alcoholism facts and statistics that related to everyone, and mainly to today’s youth.
In actual fact, it was almost as if a light went on and Dante instantaneously grasped why he should not be engaging in excessive and abusive drinking with or without his buddies any longer. Dante thanked Miss Johnson for her concern and for the material she reviewed.
Miss Johnson then asked Dante how he felt about getting a physical examination and an alcohol evaluation for the alcohol abuse or alcohol dependency rehabilitation he would probably need. Dante thought about this for few minutes and then agreed to get a complete physical examination and to go through a complete evaluation of his drinking circumstances so that he could start an alcohol abuse or alcohol addiction treatment program immediately. After meeting with Miss Johnson, not only was it obvious that Dante’s self esteem and personal happiness had been enhanced as he began to face his abusive and hazardous drinking, but it was also obvious that he could assume a positive leadership role with his friends.